Showing posts with label leadership. Show all posts
Showing posts with label leadership. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Obama Stole It from Me

I have to admit that over the Labor Day weekend, I was pretty much in a hole. A nice, warm, cozy hole that I didn't want to emerge from.

That may be why I didn't read any of the pre-speech details regarding Obama's speech yesterday. Oh, I was aware that people were up in arms about it, worrying that brainwashing tentacles were going to emerge from the television set and wrap their sucker tips around the neurons of any unsuspecting school-age humans who happened to be watching. Honestly, I didn't know enough about the speech to know if it was going to be political or not. Frankly, I didn't care too much, since I don't have much in the way of political leanings.

But I did think it would be useful to have the kids watch the speech, mostly because it was a hot topic and because it was given by our president. Much in the same way that I'll have them watch at least some of tonight's speech. It's all part of our homeschooling curriculum (if what we do can be called a curriculum).

So I was pleased when we all gathered around the television today (after hours of struggling with getting the damned computer hooked up to go through the screen) to watch the few minutes of speech.

Know why I was pleased? Because Obama gave the same speech that I give on a regular basis, in slightly different wording. It goes something like this:

"Smarts aren't enough. Hard work matters more than talent. Sometimes work isn't fun. Failure leads to success. Joy, confidence, happiness, and satisfaction come from success in life."

Okay, so he elaborated a bit. My hope is that my kids will listen to him much more than they listen to me, especially when it comes to the motivation factor. S kept looking at me throughout the speech, with a look that said, "Where have I heard that before?"

I'm just glad that they heard someone else they respect saying the same sorts of things that I've said in the past. It always helps when my kids learn from more than one source, especially a source other than Mom occasionally, and from someone who's at the top of the heap.

And maybe some of it will stick.

Monday, September 7, 2009

My First API Meeting Tomorrow

I'm not a joiner.

That may sound odd, considering I'm on about forty online groups and am the moderator or owner of half a dozen or so.

But when it comes to actually rounding up the kids, preparing everybody for time out of the house, getting in the car, and showing up some place on time - you know, meeting people in person - I'm woefully deficient. If you need some volunteer sweat, I'm your girl. Give me a computer with some menial tasks that need doing and I'm all set.

But ask me to be somewhere in the flesh ... well, that's harder for me. I'm not sure why ... I enjoy being around people and I like getting to know people in real life that I've met only virtually. Who knows? Maybe it's just that I'm a bit of a loner by nature and I march to my own drumbeat (that's one of the big reasons we homeschool - I can't stomach the idea of being on the school's schedule).

No matter, tomorrow is the first day that I'll attend an Attachment Parenting International meeting as a guest instead of a speaker. I've applied to be a leader, so it just makes sense that I actually start attending the meetings. Sorry you can't see my blush through the computer screen.

I'll let you know how it goes.

Friday, July 24, 2009

The Introverted Leader

On Monday, I asked what non-attachment parents think about the AP philosophy in this post. Here's why I was asking ... I've decided I'm going to pursue becoming an API leader!

One of my goals as a leader would be to make attachment parenting appeal to more mainstream parents, and in order to do that I need to find out what typical parents think about AP - that is, if they think anything about it at all. Hence my question. (But apparently, not too many non-AP people read my blog, or at least they don't comment.)

There also seems to be a lack of vocal parents of older kids in the AP community, so parents of young children have no one to ask questions of who've already been there, done that. Many attached parents are entirely comfortable being attached to their babies, but they question the usefulness or wisdom of maintaining the connection through the elementary ages and into the teen years.

Now ... all I have to do is figure out how to find the time to go through the application process - not to mention the actual meetings. :)

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